What two words, formed from different arrangements of the same nine letters, can be used to complete the sentences below?

Someone said that certain people have
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ thrust upon them.

Unfortunately, history shows that this
often _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ family and friends.

Someone said that certain people have greatness thrust upon them.

Unfortunately, history shows that this often estranges family and friends.

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